Is a month of dating too soon to ask “what are we doing”?
Ok, so I have been dating somebody for just over a month and it has seriously been AMAZING. We see each other atleast four times a week and just connect on so many levels and both already feel very comfortable with one another. I ordinarilly let relationships evolve naturally without having the dreaded “what are we doing/where are we going/etc” convo but this is a special circumstance.
He is moving downstate about an hour and a half this weekend for his job, where he will be for a year. I know that he has maintained a previous relationship while living downstate with his ex living upstate. Before he moves I would like to know the status of our relationship but don’t know how to go about asking…. any suggestions? Should I just not ask at all?
You havn’t trended such waters yet? No conversations about past relationships? No talk of future hopes? No deep exchanges about your present feelings about who you are and were your going? I’m confused really, you might just be pushing it, for you to have avoided such subjects you guys havn’t gone to the important levels. The truths of what you want or need form someone and yourselves. Some pretty important waters to go thru.
Really, if you havn’t made it that deep, it’s only been a month, let this envolve you know if he’s commited, he’ll stay that way, and right now, for you not to feel were you guys are going, you havn’t talked much about honestly were your at. IN other words, you guys have been hiding the truth behind happy romance and sweet sujestions. Get real with each other, be friends…..
which is typically the way it is relax, and let yourselves float naturally into the deep, if not, might not be ready to trust each other, and right now, thats number 1….. it’s still early….
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