Can you eventually develop a physical attraction for someone?
I recently started dating a guy that has everything I could ever want in a relationship… he is kind, honest, a little shy, genuine, and a very hard worker who enjoys many of the same activities that I do. He is very nice looking and treats me just like a queen, very respectful and attentive. However, I don’t have that “hot” physical attraction to him yet. Will that come later? My intellectual mind tells me that this person would make a great partner and would always treat me the very best. I am used to being attracted to “bad boys” that end up treating me very badly, lying, cheating, etc. So I specifically changed what I was looking for and recently met this sweet guy. Does the chemistry have to be there at the very beginning… or can it be developed later??
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Well eventually you will grow a strong connection towards them..yes it can happen…. I had to recently open my self up to people who have everything but im not attracted to them..and i came to realize they make me happier…but before i was shallow…sometimes in life we have to step out of what where use to…then we come to find a person who is what where looking for by just opening up…i understand what your saying…and eventually you will find him attractive because he treats you so right and put a smile on your face…your going to start to look at the person in a different light
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