How do I get women to pay attention to me on the dating sites?
I’ve been going to various dating sites for a few years now and have really only gotten lucky one. What is the best way to maximize my luck while still minimizing my chances for failure? I don’t want the whole sex experience to be a one trick pony for me, especially since I just lost my virginity this year at the age of 27. I would like to get advice on writing better profiles and better messages to women. If you can help with examples or advice, I will be much appreciative. I’m tired of being alone.
Okay, well just based on what you wrote (not to sound rude but…) You sound too desperate!! You need to say things like “Just want to broaden my horizons and meet people who I could really click with” Figure something out that is really unique (but good) about you, and talk about it. I wouldn’t put out the fact that you were a 27 year old virgin because then right off the bat, the woman is thinking…”Why?”, and that’s no question a woman should ever ask herself because then she thinks of all different kinds of wild possibilities. You need to sound sure with yourself and assure any girl that you would treat them right. Don’t come off as the really sweet guy that girls would only talk to when they need a buddy to go for coffee with them. But don’t come off as the total wannabe hardass either. Honestly, you need to be yourself. And take a lesson from Hitch here. “She may not want to see all of you at once, but she does want to see YOU”. So just be the guy that you are, and girls will definetely come around. Good luck sweetie <3