i need the dating for dummies book. please help me!?
okay so. first off id like to say that im 22 years old. well. i recently just got a divorce because my husband cheated on me after being together for five years and then he ray away with another woman. I currently work with his bestfriend since highschool and unfortunatly………. we like eachother ALOT. the only problem is that im sooooo out of the loop here. i dont know how to date, i dont know what to say , what to wear.. i need like the dating for dummies guide. lol. i should have so much game at my age, but since i never dated around, i feel like im 10 when im around him. were going out sat. to a dancehall with some work friends…. do i turn down other guys when they ask me to dance? what do i wear? Do i need to play hard to get? im sooo lost. any dating adive you have would be magnificant.
yall dont think im a hooch, or a bad person do you? i mean its been about 6 months since the divorce.
wow. you are really worried about how this can go.
first of all, be calm, tell yourself, ‘whatever happens, i will be fine.’
then be yourself. where something comfortable for your dancing that is flattering for your body. apply make-up and do your hair. obviously shower. don’t wear a ton of perfume, just a light bit. he may have sensitivities.
do not dance with other guys if he is your date.
chances are guys around will notice that and not ask, but if they do ask, they are complete jerks.
what color is flattering on you? wear that.
do not play any games. i’m warning you, once a couple starts playing games, they never stop. be yourself, i can’t stress this enough. don’t try to be someone else. be genuine, he already likes you for you, don’t change who that is.
Dating for Dummies