how do I go about dating a man with kids?
So, I’ve started dateing this wonderful man, we get along really well and i’m very excited.
The thing is, he has a 2 year old little boy. kiddeo’s mommy isn’t in the picture, like in jail.
But now I wonder, I’m not ready to be mommy, but I don’t mind kids at all.
How involved should I be in the little one’s life?
i disagree with the don’t…..i’ve been around for my dad dating other ppl. he’s now married but for one he didn’t put me and my brother into meeting the women he was dating b/c well that’s not a smart thing to do.
if your really into this guy then you should accept him and w/e he comes with.but in time. you shuldn’t feel like you have to be his son’s mother nor should you really act like it.b/c your’re not.
once you and the guy are really serious and think there’s maybe a future in marriage and wat not then should treat the little boy as if he was yours. boys as well as girls need both a mother and father figure in their life.
but i say if you and the man aren’t really on that level where you should interact with his son don’t because the little one can grow attached and hurt him if you and his dad weren’t to contiune your relationship.
hoped i helped and that things work out.
best wishes
RE: dating men w/ kids