I am in love with my sons father, and he is in a new relationship. How can I get him back?
My sons father is in a somewhat new, 2 month relationship. He has been asking for years for us to get back together and I have always declined. I asked him to get his life in order, job, money, taxes,etc. It took him years and now that all his affairs are in order, he is with another woman, an older woman. I am dying inside. I have dated through the years but I have always had my eye on him. I called him and asked him to start over with my son and I and HE declined. He says he is happy and I have hurt him too much in the past. I sent him a letter apologizing for hurting him and telling him I hope all his dreams come true. I told him I hope he is happy with his new lady and they do well together. My heart is crushed and broken. Please, what do I do? Please help me with advice. I am dying here. What are the statistics of new relationships lasting years? PS, he is a good father to our 16 year old son.
well. if you went through a divorce with him i dont think you deserve him back. because when you get married you VOW TO GOD that through THE GOOD AND BAD (him not having a job, even being homeless) that you would stay together in the bond of marriage.
if you werent married then i believe all you can do is wait hun… dont go out with anyone else while you still want to be with him.. try sending him letters maybe telling him about some things that are going on in your sons life. do very small but noticeable things to let him know that you have changed and want him back. but do not, I REPEAT, do NOT pester him about it!!!! all that will do is possibly annoy him and push him farther away!!!!! also, do not try to break them up. try to win him back.. try to do small things that reminds him of the good times you had when you were together. things that remind him of how happy you used to be together. and if he ever talks to you about it.. let him know that you are very sorry that you hurt him so much.. he is probably still missing you… he just may be trying to forget you because he got so hurt by you… above all be patient though….and dont pressure him into doing anything… dont ever take the things you love in life for granted… because you never know when it is going to slip away…
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