Don’t know how to treat my ex … it’s a roller coaster.
Been divorced for 6 years. I have 3 beautiful children. It took us ( my ex and I) this long to finally have a good relationship. We have put the past aside for our sake and the kids sake, so we get along fine. However, he knows that I still care for him and he gives me mixed signals. I confronted him about his attitude and he said that he was confused that he didn’t know what he wanted. He didn’t want me but he did. I came to find out that he is in several online dating websites and a professional dating service… yet, he spends more time hanging out in my house than when we used to be married. He doesn’t make any “moves” or anything yet he is super nice. Do I give him the cold shoulder? Do I start seriously dating?? I’m so baffled at this.
If you still care about him and really have no interest in other men, then ‘Id just leave it status quo. But if you really want the sexual side with him back, you make an advance and see what happens
Since you let him hang out with you, he obviously enjoys your company – maybe he wants YOU to make the 1st move.
It mainly depends on what YOU want to do with your life. He may be content to just “hang out” forever! Are you?
Divorced and Dating