OK, I just got off the phone with a man who gave me an ultimatum, do all men do that?
I called a man who gave me his # a couple of weeks ago to tell him I was ready to date. I invited him to my house and at the last minute I called him and chickened out, even once when he was at my door. I told him I had other plans, this has happened twice between us, I got cold feet. I was into another man who did nothing but provoke me to meet other men. The one I have been flaking on is a fireman and co-owns a gym. He asked me to go there to work out for free so I did on days he was not there, his friends told him I was talking to other guys which is not true. When I worked out they approached me to chat. So he showed up at my house and went off on me, grabbed me by the arm and pulled me out of my house, I thought it was a masculine thing to do. We drove and parked and talked, he was a gentleman. He called me tonight and said if I don’t kiss him this weekend or show him that I care he is going to give up on me and that I should know that he won’t wait for me. What should I do?
It was ridiculous for you to flake on him like that, especially if he was actually at your door.
And it was really absurd for you to take the freebie that he was obviously offering you, as a way of seeing you more, then going when he was not there.
Really immature, like something a 15 year old girl would do.
Say what you mean, and mean what you say.
From a guy’s perspective, it looks 100% like you’re using and manipulating him, or even perhaps a crazy person.
However, the guy coming over, grabbing you, and being even indirectly threatening is way over the top, and is evidence that he’s a woman abuser.
I would stay away from this guy if I were you, he’s trouble.
I’m a guy, by the way.
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