What to do and how to stop this cycle?
I’m 34 and single. Whenever I meet a guy, I think I start
too strong and this scares them.
That’s because my mother keeps telling me noody will want me
and guys are too smart to choose me!!
Don’t know why she talks like that. I’m pretty, professional and
have a good financial state.
How can I stop this cycle of bad luck?
You have chosen career over your love life, probably because of maternal influence, or just your mental conditioning that keeps on urging your subconscious to go for goal which are not in line with personal relationships. Already you are approaching a mature age, and perhaps is already consider other options having reached if not fulfilled your social working status.
My take on this, if you can consider it as an advice, is to put whatever it is your mum is feeding you that is having such a negative impact on your love life, she is a generation away and the simple fact that she had you means that she did have a relationship that more or less succeeded with you being the product. Try and socialize more with employees or friends. Being high up in the hierarchy might mean you have few whom you can count on, but this does not mean you have none. If all else fail, go to social networking sites, try and learn inputs, hints, read stuff that you normally consider too mundane, a lot of people you might call too droll are actually what constitutes the more general public. Go on a vacation, go to disco, bars, join volunteer events and talk to people, do sports, interact and go out with them. This will give you a broader picture on what you want for yourself.
Who knows, perhaps the comfort and safety of the office is what you truly desire in the end. Still, it is worth the exploration and adventure. Breaking the cycle of bad luck may just be the greatest adventure of your life!
Good Luck ^_^
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