INTERNET DATING? how do you know if he’s honest?
hi, i met this guy on an internet dating site. we live in different states. The problem is that im uncertain about things that he tells me. he said that the moment he saw my picture he knew i would be his wife within 6 months. he is 17yrs older than me and i’m not sure about my feelings for him. How soon is to soon to talk about marriage. Also is there any such thing as love at first site? would love to here about internet dating experience.
Lose this guy NOW! Talking about marriage so soon in your “relationship” is a tell-tale sign of abusiveness (or at the very least mental instability).
As for knowing whether or not your internet paramours are being truthful, you don’t. For that reason, always trust your intuition. If you feel that someone is exaggerating (or lied outright) they probably did.
Talk on the phone with the person a few times. And when you decide to meet face to face with an internet friend, meet in public. Tell a friend where you are going if you decide not to bring them along. And don’t tell your date where you live or give them your home phone number.
My Internet “Dating” Experience