Need Muslims advice?
Im so confused. I need advice. Im a white non muslim dating and pregnant by a Somlian muslim. Everything was fine for awhile. Now his friend is telling he that my boyfriend loves me but just cant tell his family. He askes our friends how he can marry me. (Im pregnant) I need advice. Is their anything I can do is their any good websites to help me with my relationship with him. Can any muslims give me advice about our relatinship like do I have to marry him? I do love him deeply but I hung up the phone on him and he is not talking to me. But he claims he loves me. HELP. What do I do?
Im really sorry to hear about your situation. Your boyfriend has commited a major sin in Islam – it is bad enough he has a girlfriend but the fact he has now brought a child into the world outside wedlock is far far worse. The only honourable thing he can do now is marry you, though this is only permitted if you are a Christian or a Jewish woman. You should also try and find out more about Islam regardless of this man.
He should be a real Muslim man and tell his parents then marry you. Sadly many dont and instead dump their girlfriends then expect to marry a virginal Muslim woman- they are a disgrace to their religion. If he really loves you and wants to marry you why hasnt he told his family? You should give him an ultimatum.
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