To Dating single parents or parents now married but was a single parent, Help!!!?

Background:
I am dating a single father of 2 teens, I have never been married and I don’t have children and have never dated someone with children, also I am a youth specialist working with teens and preteens within my church.

What are some things you would like the person you are dating to do with your children?
What are some absolute no’s with your children (and I would never harm a child but I know thats a definite)?
What are some things you would just like the person you are dating to be informed about?

Any advice would be greatly appreicated and if you can think of anything else I would love to know.

I don’t want to burst your bubble but this is a difficult situation. i am newly married to a man with 2 teens and the last year has been hell. the kids loved me up until we all moved in together now all i get is disrespect from them. It’s tough when your not the parent. We do a lot of bowling,parks and shopping when they like me for the day. I can’t disipline them and never offer advise to them about life because then they look at me like i am a witch. Never talk bad about their mother in front of them, let dad disipline and just try to be their friend hopefully you will have better success than i am having

Single Parent Dating (introducing a new mate to your kids)