Do you think if you’ve always dated losersin the past that the cycle / pattern can be changed?
I know / see people who go out with loser after loser
To be honest – myself included! LOL
But I believe I can change that cycle – now that I’m fully aware of what I’m NOT looking for ( and what I AM looking for ) and I tend to have warning bells go off in my head now if I meet someone who I feel could possibly be abusive in any way – even if he’s charming and hot!!
( I think I used to avoid the warning signs before – and ‘hope’ he was nice! )
I want intelligence and normality!!!…..and lots of laughter
I used to think the stable guys would be boring – but I reckon they could be a laugh too!…..I’m hoping!!!!
Anyone got any real life stories with GOOD endings – I’m fed up with seeing people make the same mistakes their whole life!
I’ve been with a loser but he was my first boyfriend. Right now, I’m all about changing and improving myself so I can break that cycle. The warning signs, I ignored them too lol optimism gets in the way too much lol. I’ve got guys who crush on me and want to take me out but I keep my distance and take things slow, even if I really like them, I push myself to take things slow and get to know them and check for the signs.
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