What are your opinions on dating while going through a divorce?
My husband and I just decided on a divorce a few weeks ago … He just moved out last weekend. No papers have been signed or filed yet. He is already on the prowl. It was my decision to end our marriage, but I am still bitter that it has taken him so little time to move on …. We have two children together, and while I have them 24/7 he is out picking up on little 22 year olds …. He took all of the furniture and got an apartment already …. So while he’s living all good … his family (or what once was) is living in an empty house. I just think it is sooo selfish on his part … I know I made a good decision, but should I not be bitter or do I have a right to be?
I’m recently separated after a hellish marriage and my advice to you is not to date because you think your Ex is doing it. Concentrate on making yourself and your children comfortable.
Get a lawyer and start working on custody, child support, and division of assets. You should be able to get temporary child support pushed through the court until you get a final settlement in place.
It’s better not to get involved with anyone else until you’ve resolved your present situation. Go to individual therapy and sort your head out. You’re probably as mad as a hornet but don’t jump into a new relationship now.
Your Ex is on some kind of a sugar rush but is probably not scoring as much as you imagine. Women have a radar for gigolos like your Ex and only the lowest of the low fall for that kind of man.
Keep your values higher. Take care or yourself and your children and you will feel much better in the end. Once you’ve gotten your balance back you can start thinking about dating again.
That’s the plan I’m taking and I’m in a similar boat as you are. I kind-of like taking the high ground. I’m a single dad and I’m ok with it. My child loves me and that’s all I need right now.
Good luck.
Leeteuk – Innocent Bachelor while dating (cut 1/2)
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